Memule nk tanye sket, do you smoke? are you a male or a female? what are your thoughts about a female who smoke? is it bad or you just simply dont care? and whats the different does it make if that smoker a male or a female?
in our society(Malaysians), smoking had been one of the main social life. Malaysians had been smoking since god knows when. And from my surveillance, male and female had been smoking equally since then. even now, there are nenek2 yg still smoking. so i dont really get it when some people make a big fuss when they saw a female lighted up a smoke.
Honestly i am a smoker myself. socially. i am not a heavy smoker FYI. i only smoke when im out with my friends or when im driving. cus i easily get sleepy while driving so smoking keeps me awake. and i can sure skip days without smoking and live happily like a normal person does. seriously! i do! i can live without cigarettes for months!
sigh* The thing is, do you judge someone personality by his/her smoking habits? what does smoking had to do with their personality? bukan cuba nk tegakkan benang yang basah. yes! i have to admit that smokers are a part of a bad example for social life and a very bad civilisation human ever created!
When i was a kid, i was taught how smoking was bad for your health. and smoking is no good. and smokers are baaad people~ and i remembered how i used to be that innocent yet stupid little girl who hate smokers. yep! i used to hate them! in fact, i used to label them. without actually knowing the person. hmmm~
But when i started college, i started to open up. accepting people who are smokers as a friend. Male or female, i dun really care. cus i dont judge people on what they do. as long as you not a psychic killer or a suicide bomber, then im ok with u~ XD
so how did the innocent yet stupid girl get involved with this bad habit? well, it was sorta and experiment for myself where i got carried away eventually. tu la, ckp mak tak mo dgr~ haha!
Before, i used to kept my bad habits down low to make sure that my parents wont ever find out. Tapi sepandai pandai tupai melompat, akhirnya jatuh ke tanah jua~ huhu! So now, i smoke freely as i want. well..not exactly that free la! i am not that kurang ajar sampai nk smoke infront of my parents. Just that i am no longer sorok2 la bile smoke kat luar. and i dont mind at all if ternampak anyone that i knew. cus honestly i dont really care wut others might say bout me. even tho i knew that they obviously will tell my parents bout it.like duhh! i just smokes. not that i kill any being for gawd sake! halo?!
i dont understand why is it okay for men to smoke and women who smoke always dipandang 'hina' oleh segelintir orang. while the concicuinces of smoking is obviously the same. for our culture, memanglah tak manis bile orang perempuan merokok. cus women are labeled as the sopan santun dan harus menjaga tata susila (shit talks!XD).but what if she legally wanted to smoke but still keeps her kindness and attitudes towards others and herself, so then, what is the problem?
For the past years, from my experience, not all women(or even men)who smoke, gives bad examples to others. cus some of these people are actually nice and social problems free! they didnt get involve with samseng or freesex or drugs or anything related to that! uuu..like me! haha! seriously! i smoke.i go to clubs. but i dont think that makes me a bad person. and i am also proud to say that i will have my white wedding someday in the future.(if u know wut i mean!XD)
And belive me, ive met some people who doesnt smoke, who didnt go to club or parties, who tots that marijuana is some kind of exotic animals...and they're not nice! some are backstabbers and some even practise free sex! hey! tat is even worst than smoking!
What im trying to say is...i'm probably a smoker but that doesnt make me a bad person...
[sigh] >_<;
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